The Secrets of Female Sexuality Be the Masterful Lover Women Crave Paperback – September 3, 2009

I got this book a bit ago when I was more on the outs a learning curve on my "Game" it really gave me more insight into the sexual nature of the female psyche. He explains things fairly simply so it makes sense and the stories and testimonials are good and sincere. If you are studying the world of pick-up and want some resources on escalation and unlocking the sexual power in women this will help. It gives you that frame of mind that women do enjoy sex and pleasure just as much if not more than we do.

David Shade has excellent insight of females and why they think and act as they do. This insight has come to David at a high price -- his wife divorced him to pursue her desire for a "bad boy." This book shows how David changed his relationships to match what women actually want and need to have sexually.I have read David's books 3 times. I have given copies of this book to my grown children to help them sexually with their marriages.David has produced several excellent realated products, including "How to Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms."

I'm confused by the number of 5 star reviews given to this book. I bought this book after reading many recommendations here on amazon and elsewhere on the web and there's no denying what a few of the other reviewers here have stated. It's boring and extremely light on the actual details of how to be a 'masterful lover'. One cannot overstate the fact that the bulk of the book consists of testimonials praising concepts that Shade barely even touches upon.Then there are chapters written by special guest authors, mostly people who have also written books in the self-help relationship arena. I found these to be of little value as well. Lots of fluff. Nothing actually useful.There's no 'how to' anywhere in this book. I kept turning pages thinking that surely the tone would settle down and there would eventually be something worthwhile. It remains vague and self-congratulatory throughout though.Perhaps some of David Shade's other products are more substantive but I'd be hesitant to actually purchase them. If this is to be an introduction to the world of the 'masterful lover', then I'm not impressed.

I've been a follower of David's for quite a while and have most of his products. His insight into the needs of the female to feel fulfilled is above and beyond many in the field. This book should be required reading for any man who truly has the desire to understand how the mind of women works and what it takes to fulfill their needs. My only problem with the book is that almost half of it is copies of emails that David has received, mostly from women who are complaining about some aspect of the man or men in their lives. Sometimes full chapters are just emails. I understand the purpose was to give examples of what women are saying and sometimes to edify the author but I think he got a bit excessive.Overall I found it enlightening and I will re-read it in the future but I will skip over most of the emails. C. O. Seattle, WA

This book captured exactly how I feel. I am a professional, business woman. My dad's a preacher, so I was raised with strong values and I would say people would call me a 'good girl'. But yet, I want to have passionate, slightly aggressive sex. I want my man to pull me towards him, or push me up against a wall, or rip my clothes off, or slap my butt. I want my man to call me a bad little girl or to talk to me dirty. I still like the romantic kissy stuff, but I like a mix of the other stuff too. I would only want this with the man I am friends with too because I would need to trust him and be madly in love with him to make the sex great. I have heard from more and more women that they have a hard time being the 'slut' with their husband compared to when they were dating. I think husbands have a hard time calling the woman they love a slut or being aggressive with her, but it really is what we want. If we don't get it with our husband, we imagine having it with someone else and it's not uncommon for this desire to get so strong that we eventually cheat or leave our husband so we can get that kind of sex that gives us real orgasms we don't have to fake. All men need to read this book and start using the suggested techniques with their wives, even if they feel uncomfortable doing it at first or don't think their wife will like it. Believe me, they will love it!

Being a fan of David Shade I was motivated to read his new work. His thoughts and teachings are so monumental that my brother and Sister have incorperated his teachings on respect and trust in there dating lives, just by hearing me quote him in conversations. But having his first book and his DVD's this book really offeres nothing new, but instead is a testoment of his work with different couples. If your looking to start out on the path of a Masterful Lover that respects women, I would recomend reading his frist book The Secrets Of Female Sexuality, in my oppinion it is better written and more enlighting. Also most of his writtings from that book are reprinted here. Then look into his DVD's sold exclusively off of his web sight for the techniques needed to elevate your love life to the greatest level. But again David's work is to be implimented not just read so in truth no real new information is need. What ever book you get start learning, understand what women truthfully desire, impliment his teachings, play nice and learn to be a great lover.

Good to read if you know the man you're dating has a copy - so you can know how he's trying to manipulate you. Not content that will create any lasting meaningful relationships or even lasting enjoyable sex. You might get to stroke your ego for a while though. The only book I ever ripped the cover off of and recycled with the garbage so it wouldn't end up in the Goodwill store and create hurt for another woman.

If you're interested in improving yourself as a man, and not only regarding your sexlife, you really should take a look at this book.

Amazing book!! You have to get this book!! If you apply the things in this book and get the mindset, you will have a much deeper connection with your lover, make her crazy about you, keep her for life, and be much more in love with each other, which will also benefit your kids to see their parents madly in love.

There is something odd about the Bible. Every time God addresses Men in the Bible, he does it twice (e.g. Ex 3:2: "Moses, Moses" & Acts 9:4: "Saul, Saul").Why is this? Simple answer: Men always need to be told everything twice!And God has it easy - Women trying to tell Men about how to be good in bed, what they should read/ view & how they really aren't the Lothario they think they are? It falls on deaf ears. The World's most powerful Evangelists in their prime (including Dawkins), 50 Martin Luther-Kings (with megaphones & loud speakers) AND a fleet of airplanes (that could write it across all the skies of the World) couldn't get the message across.Why are they so stubborn? Because (in the words of Jay Leno on Top Gear) "Sex is like driving a car; all men think they're good at it!"Reading this book, I fell into this trap myself - my ego kept saying what a stud I was & how I didn't need ANY of this material. Had I been in a relationship at the time, it would have been even worse as the 'Just Be Yourself' routine would have stopped me learning anything at all. I also suggested this book to male friends & they were incredulous as to why I was even bothering to read it.However, I'm so glad I continued reading & read all the emails of Women saying 'Help me to Help him!' & how they'd surely cheat if their Man didn't start listening & correct their behaviour. It really is an amazing revelation to see, with open eyes, one of the greatest causes of domestic strife in modern times (& probably a few World Wars!).The sad & sorry truth is: Most Men are terrible in bed & (even worse) are unwilling to learn how to rectify it or even see it as a problem.Women frequently buy this book (& 'How to Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms') for their partners, read it themselves & then beseech their partners to do so. Few Men do & most have such fragile egos that they ignore the message. If only they had the humility to learn, they would find that the truth really does set you free; knowing how to make a Woman happy in bed is *crucial* to every relationship & knowing what an exquisite thing the feminine is, is to be a complete human being.Imagine if everyone knew the techniques in this book. There's be fewer divorces. There'd be no Bad Boys 'sharking' around other people's marriages looking for homes to ruin. And the whole World would feel more happy, more complete & more fulfilled.All this said, there are weaknesses to this book. The first (& most obvious) is that much of this book consists of lots of emails from Women one-after-another-after-another, with little or no input from the author. It's almost like Mr Shade has employed 'Polly Filler' from Private Eye to fill out the book to over 250 pages!Furthermore, I noticed that Mr Shade uses a lot of his material from here in his newsletter & vice versa. This is mostly forgivable, but it can be a little annoying when you expect a brand new newsletter & find old material from this book. It's almost a disincentive for buying it.That said, NO disincentive should dissuade people from buying this book. There is still an epic crisis out there & one of the few places you will find a remedy is within the pages of this book. Hopefully, one day all people will see this & Men will show themselves as the leaders they are born to be & fulfil their purpose in life.So, to conclude, if you're a Woman, then please buy this for your Man (even if he is actually good in bed). I personally have even had female colleagues asking me for a copy & wanting to see mine, so you're not alone. Oh, and if you want to persuade your man, show them this review! ;)If you're male, then I encourage you to buy this & discover what it really is to be a Man.As for me? I'm buying a copy to put in my local pub...

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