Husband Pillow XXL Reading Pillow with Arms - 30" Tall Backrest for Sitting Up in Bed - Firm Support Bed Rest Pillow for Adults, Neck Roll, Removable Cover - TV, Reading, Lounging - Purple

Love the memory foam, love how it’s stiff and sturdy but yet comfortable. It holds form wonderfully. Exactly what I wanted in bed. Supports my back and keeps me in the best position to relax.

I have used this bed pillow for a couple months now and it has been one of thr most comfortable I've owned. I needed something with support for my neck and back. It works for both. One tip: it helps after you sit to take hold of the pillow arms and pull them forward so the pillow pulls snug against you back. I also like how the neck roll is adjustable so you can have it sit higher or lower. It makes it so comfortable though, that I can easily fall asleep watching TV in bed. I chose the light green because it goes with my bedroom decor. I also bought the medium size, since the other reviews mentioned it was good for women my height, 5' 3". The material is soft and the pillow is on the firm side. It has also maintained its shape really well. I gave it 5 stars because I haven't found anything I don't like about it.

I bought the Husband Pillow XXL because my previous one felt more like it was made for a teenager. It worked fine, but I wanted something bigger and this was a great upgrade. This pillow is very comfortable and offers excellent back support. It is a bit bulky in the middle, but it still works well overall. I’m even able to comfortably fit two people side by side with it, which was a nice surprise. I definitely recommend using this on a larger bed. I would not suggest it for a twin-size bed at all, it would feel overwhelming in that space. The pockets on the outside are a helpful bonus and make the bulkiness more practical. Overall, it’s very supportive, well made, and worth the purchase if you’re looking for serious comfort and back support.

Well, I needed something to lay up against the wall while sitting on my bed and this bed pillow is perfect for that. It's not the most comfortable pillow it provides good enough back support. It's not soft like an actual pillow, but it's not supposed to be. Its job is to be sturdy and still enough to support your back while sitting on the floor or your bed without falling over and it does that easily. I'm happy that I made the purchase and it's worth the money considering I use it often. It looks good too and has a soft feel to it. The pillow itself is very sturdy so it won't fall over. It has great support for my neck also without the worry of any strain or discomfort. The only dislike would be that if you sit for long, it will be a bit uncomfortable on your back, but this can be fixed by placing a soft pillow in front of it for extra comfort. I found myself having to do this frequently and this tended to fix the issue. Other than that this pillow is great for sitting in bed watching tv, reading a book, or browsing on your computer. No more sitting my back up against a hard wall or trying to stand a pillow up to lay against. This is the ultimate bed rest pillow to suit your needs.

I splurged and bought the XXL furry pillow. It’s a quality item. I went far too long with it being uncomfortable, but that was on me. I finally got around to taking out quite a bit of the stuffing. Now I can settle into it and be truly comfortable. I enjoy settling in for reading and television watching. I like to pull it away from the head of the bed and lean back a bit. The arm rests are lovely, and the head rest sits at a perfect height. I’m 5’5”. It is a big chunk of money to spend, but considering the state of the world, this is amazing self care. And don’t we all need some of that when we can get it. You won’t regret it. Just know you can take out some stuffing and tailor it to your comfort level.

I'll start off with: We're keeping it.... but.... CONS: It's NOT plush foam. This arrived and was a LUMPY HARD rock. Yes, we let it air out... nearly 72 hours. No odor (which was a pleasant surprise) but that may have been because it wasn't "plush" foam as noted. We decided we had to remove some foam because it just seemed TOO stuffed and uncomfortable. I removed an ENTIRE kitchen garbage bag. Then it was a bit softer yet firm enough to sit back on. But what I found was a high % of the foam having a HARD coating/shell. (see photo.) These sharper ridges and edges must impede the contents from really molding and that's the lumpy heavier result. When you stick your hand inside, you can immediately feel all the sharper edges on every piece that had it (best way to describe it is the feel of clear packing tape. Obviously they got foam that had a coating of sort and chopped that. Absolutely not “shredded true memory foam" because memory foam doesn't have that coating on it. Maybe the ones that don't have this coating is true memory foam...but a TON of it had that coating. It also was a HUGE static mess! One might think "well that's just what foam does." Well, after removing the entire contents of the headrest pillow - I decided to fill with extra foam we some we had leftover one of the #1 selling pillows (thank goodness - otherwise, the price of this goes up or we would've returned) - and THAT foam is pure plush foam and it had NO static. Not sure why but obvious difference. So...... PROS: Now with the headrest pillow stuffing replaced, and 25% (or more) of the backrest foam removed - it's actually decent. Quite large, outer shell IS very soft. We kept the lumpy hard stuff tight in the arm rests, and the back has room for the stuffing to move now so it's not so STIFF but comfortable. So for this amount of money and considering there are lots to choose from, not sure this is worth the costs. But..it had the pockets and headrest pillow that others don't have. This also had more colors to choose from so our research led us here. I've included a photo on our King size bed for comparison. It's almost too big, daughter wants to use this on her Twin College dorm bed. Not sure it will swallow her. But only size in the color we chose and the color and pockets was our motivator for paying this price. Not the worst Amazon purchase...but not the best either.

This saved me after my cervical spine neck surgery. I think it would be great for any surgery but is also super for reading or watching tv. It is soft yet supportive, the additional round head pillow is detached.

Normally I'd write a review immediately when the strap for the headrest broke upon trying to button it, but I have a sewing machine and already went through enough waiting, fluffing, moving around stuffing... But I decided to wait. I really don't know what else to say about the design of the headrest other than be careful if you have cervical instability... It is slightly more supportive than the stack of blankets I was leaning my neck against before this(which kept falling off). I laid it on its back for the fluffing out period and tried to get plenty on top to stabilize the headrest(which worked for a little while). The zippered hole to move around stuffing is barely the size of my elbow(not large), and it's nearly impossible to reach the top. I have an old shredded memory foam body pillow that I've been cannibalizing for foam that I planned to use for extra stuffing.. Other reviews noted some of the foam has pokey edges, many pieces definitely are more firm on one side, if my back were currently tender I might describe as pokey.. I had thought when ordering if I find it to be pokey I'll put the soft foam in front of it... With this tiny hole to arrange stuffing, you won't get soft stuff to the front, only compact what's there. At first overall it felt comfy, the shoulders had room to breathe, my low back and neck felt supported. Now a month or so later the headrest is rolling back, I keep having to scoot back for my lumbar area to make contact, and the stuffing just generally seems to have shifted. I have it leaned up against a couch too, so I can't be sure it would sit up on its own with me leaning on it. It weighs too much for me to have returned it, for better or worse it's mine to stuff and to hold lol Do not buy if you can't lift much, don't have an extra large dryer in your home, don't have a sewing machine(or are good with thread and needle), or don't have a bunch of shredded memory foam lying around to stuff more as needed when it flattens. I love how AI still wants to know ease of use, the answer is no, any step for a pillow beyond "put on pillowcase" is not ease of use, my back hurt so bad by the time I had finished lugging this husband around! I was lucky I had a few good days to set up/fix this for all the other bad days... If you're in bad shape, you can't shape this pillow without help. Time will tell if I regret the cost of the purchase, but know full well, ALL memory foam flattens eventually... For that short time, it was just right. Now back to work lol